So this week after shamelesly promoting myself online an amazing thing happened . . . . I actually inspired someone else to detail her own journey!
The main reason I started this blog was in the hope of helping other family’s, when I was initially struggling to come to terms with Ben being Ben I endlessly searched the net for help / advice and found it very difficult to find real life stories. I found a couple of ancient US blogs but there seemed nothing in the UK, nothing current, nothing real – I was not ready to join a parents forum, I didn’t feel comfortable putting myself out there. I just wanted to read others stories from the comfort of my trusty sofa and be reassured that what I was going through, what Ben was going through was okay . . . . I didn’t find it.
I have changed that now for others and I feel extremely proud!
We have set a date for our first parent support group (yikes!) more info on that to follow!
I was also lucky enough to watch Ben interact with a new friend who came to play today, she is MTF (male to female) and the same age as Ben. Before they arrived I told Ben that the little girl who was coming to play was just like him, she used to be a boy and is now a girl – I could tell straight away that he was happy about the meeting. When she arrived it was like they had known each other forever, kindred spirits, they ran off and played – I found them in a tent, in a den just chatting – they now want to see each other every day! I am so happy about the way our journey has been so far and I am now strong enough to build the bonds between myself and other family’s. I know that is not as easy for some and that I / we are very lucky but I hope that my strength can help support others who need it.
Long may our new found friendship continue.